Registering

Everyone will tell you something different when it comes to registering. My advice is to think about your day to day life and what you need. Here is a list of ten things I think no registry should be without:

1. Casual Dinnerware
2. Casual Glassware
3. Cookware (aka, pots and pans)
4. Everyday Flatware (aka, utensils)
5. Cutlery. Registering for a good set of knives is a must.
6. Wine Glasses
7. Blender. I personally suggest the Magic Bullet, this thing might possibly be my favorite wedding gift received. Thanks Aunt Tessie!
8. Fine China. I’m traditional, so I think this is a must.
9. Corningware
10. Silicone Bake Ware

If you are a couple who is already established and has a lot of these items to begin with, don’t register for a new set of plates. Instead register for some items you would like (instead of need) and add in a few traditional gift ideas.

Other registry musts:

1. Register for a wide variety of items. If you want a $350 crystal vase offset it with a $50 set of mixing bowels. Everyone has a different budget in mind for your wedding and it’s up to you to make everyone feel like they can get you something you want.
2. Register at a couple different places. If you are dead set on getting your fine china from Bloomingdales, register for your more expensive items there, and mid range gifts at Macy’s and Crate and Barrel.

Everyone wants the option to get you a gift, some people will opt to get you cash or a gift card and that’s wonderful, but don’t not register for anything in the hopes that people will get you cash. It’s tacky.

Brandon and Kristina's Wedding

We had a mini vacation in Santa Barbara this past weekend. Everything we could've asked for...great scenery, great weather, great friends...and Evan had the privilege of a lifetime. He stood as Brandon's groomsman, after decades of friendship, it was a very special moment.

The wedding took place under a huge oak tree and the backdrop was the natural beauty of this breathtaking winery. The colors were earthy and natural and the event was intimate and lovely.

My favorite element was this gorgeous rustic tree branch they had hanging over the head table. Adorned from the tree branch were ornate crystals and candles. It gave the entire reception a romantic and intimate feeling. Not to mention, really made a statement.

All and all, it was a gorgeous wedding and was a beautiful way to start a marriage of two people whom I love very much.