About Me

My name is Megan...and simply stated...I love weddings. I love what they represent and appreciate every detail that goes into making your wedding day a perfect start to the rest of your life. I decided to write this blog, because even though my wedding is done...I learned a lot, have a lot to share and have an honest approach to help the everyday bride succeed in throwing the wedding of their dreams...and everything that follows.

Monday, July 13, 2009

Enjoy each other!!!!


Spend time enjoying your engagement and the person whom you are about to marry. It's easy to get wrapped up in wedding details...so, plan a night, once a month, where you don't talk about anything wedding related and just enjoy eachothers company. You'll be happy you did! Here are some ideas for some fun dates that will remind you just how much you love one another:
  • Take a trip down memory lane. Each month go to a restaurant you used to go to together in the beginning of your relationship. Hopefully this will help you fall in love all over again.
  • Open a nice bottle of wine and just chat, in an empty room, with only candlelight...
  • Take a day trip to the beach or the zoo. Be a kid again!
Remember, being madly in love with the person you are close to marrying is much more important than the color of the table linens (even though this does have a huge effect on the overall feel of the wedding), so don't loose sight of your love for one another. It's all that truly matters.

Wednesday, July 1, 2009

Band, or DJ....or BOTH?!?!

I've received my first email!!!! And I think its a question that every bride struggles with:
"Hi Megan! I am really having trouble deciding whether I should have a Band or a DJ for our wedding entertainment. Please help!!
---Kristen, Dallas Texas

Kristen (and for that matter, probably every bride reading this...), your problem is not unusual, in fact I struggled with the same dilemma! Hopefully my advice will help make your decision a little easier.

Band: First, you need to take into account the price differential between a Band and a DJ. Bands can run you from about $2,000 to $20,000 (and up!).
There is nothing that compares to the element of live music.
Be cautious that your Band doesn't focus too much on one genre of music.
DJ: You won't have to worry what your band will sound like singing Prince or Whitney Houston!
It takes up much less room at the reception. ** If you're struggling with space capacity at your venue, take into account that a Band takes up significantly more room (room that can be used for more of your parents friends!!).
...OR (this one will really get your head spinning!)...A BAND AND A DJ!!!
You really don't have to settle for one or the other. There are companies which have the options to reserve a band (for example, through cocktail hour, first dance and dinner) then when the party livens up switch to a DJ for a more contemporary music selection for your younger guests.

When it comes down to it, you need to decide what the general feel of your wedding is and how much you can realistically spend. In other words, if you're going to have a traditional wedding, traditionally speaking, a band will suit your event more than a DJ. Respectively, there are always going to be exceptions to this, so in the long run you need to trust your gut and do your research. A good band or DJ takes time to find, so go to a performance, or peel your head into someone else's wedding so you can get a good idea of how they interpret entertainment (they will be a very big part of your wedding!).